The pain of love

Love is a word that is given and taken away so much in the world today.  I truly believe love can heal all wounds and love can make a way though anything in life.  Love is the language of the universe.  When we act in love we are letting the universe that God himself created flow though us. 

     As i have said before since we are made from the divine we ourselves are divine.  God has allowed us to be like him with our own free will to do what we want too.  But he also gave us the responsibility of our decisions.  He allows us to make what ever decision we want but we must live with those consequences.  I truly believe this is the ultimate love to allow someone you love so much to make up their own mind about things.  But to know that those decisions have consequences is even greater.  to know that we can prosper from our decisions to know that we alone control our fate on this earth is an amazing thing.  I am so thankful for this ability.  No one controls us.  We make our own decisions in this life and where ever we are in life is because we choose to be there.  This is such a powerful statement.  That the universe that flows though us puts us in situations based about who we are and what our energy is.  I am so thankful today for this ability.  

so you think you know me

So you think you know me.  

You think you know my thoughts

You think you know my reasons

Your decisions are based off the past

they are based off of others. 

Your eyes are tinted with the past

and the actions of others

You think you can predict what i will do

Because of what others have done. 

You have taken no time to know my intent

or to learn who i am

you base your decisions off others

because of this you lose this moment

and this awesome person that stands in front of you. 

Your inner voice

Thank you once again for taking the time to click that link and read what I write.  

So much of life is what the inner voice tells us.  We can be totally disabled by what our inner voice tells us.  We can treat others like total shit because we perceive what they say as lesser.  It all goes back to the inner voice. Lets make an example of this.  Take a death in the family which is one of the worst things anyone has to go though to lose a loved one is very hard.  We can look it as losing someone and they are gone forever.  Or we can say it was their time to take the journey we all will take and they are at peace now.  Because the truth is we all die.  The second look doesn't mean that you will nto hurt from the lose and that is normal and you need that time but when our inner voice speaks we must watch what it is saying and make sure it is lined up with where we want to be in life.  If we can teach this voice to look for what we have and not what we do not then you will live a live of gratitude and that is a life that is kick ass.  

 All religions talk about this voice. Some say that it will automatically change and some religions talk about how to change this voice to line up with what you truly want. This is where the changes in life must be made before any success can be made.  Cause if you always see life as the negative you will never have to confidence to get out there and live your dreams.  Over the past few days my voice has been very negative.  Finding the things wrong in my life and not seeing all the things that are awesome.

Luckily i have caught this and can work on this though meditation.  I wanted to share this with everyone because i believe me being open may help you with what you are going though.  

This writing is a short one i just wanted to share.  Thank you again for reading.   

WHO AM I>

This Blog is a writing that i am truly writing for me.  I am sharing so that some may get inspiration from it.  I hope that you enjoy my writing and i hope that you share them with others.  I would love to get my writings out there so please share on your facebook or twitter.  Thank you again for your time.

In my reading and meditations with deepak chopra he teaches there is 3 soul questions we should ask ourselves though out the day at important times.  They are who am i, What do i want, and what is my purpose/karma.  I wanted to write about the first one while i was working at target tonight i found myself mediatating on this question.  Asking myself this over and over again.  Who am i.  Who am i.  this si such a powerful questions because the answer can change every single time you ask it.  We are multi dimensional being on this earth.  When i ask myself this question i get answers like Father, lover, steelers fan, peaceful, Meditator, and so many more.  I am so many things.  This is such an interesting concept to be some many different things but yet one person.  I truly believe this is a gift given to us by God.  We are created in his image therefore just as he is multi dimensional so can we be.  We all have divine power in us.  he has given us the power to change ourselves into what we want and need to be in this life.  There are so many stories of people changing themselves and there situations to become stronger and better in this life.  i truly believe this is God in us and this is the abilities he gave us.  So many times we look to the sky to change our situations but if we will jsut be honest and authentic with ourselves then we can change our situations in time.  It may not happen over night but true change i don't believe does.  I am so thankful God made me who i am and made me with the ability with Hard work and bring honest with myself i can change any situation.  I think one of the biggest sins is not being honest with yourself and the desires and abilities God placed in you.  I think it is a smack in Gods face.  I have been on a long road of honesty.  More then likely i have lied to you if you are reading this because i am a recovering pathological liar.  I had to make stories to make my life better because i didn't think i was good enough.  but has i have learned in the past for months and weeks i am AWESOME.  I believe once we get how awesome we really are and live that authentic life then we unlock so much power to live the true life we are meant to live.

 Thank you again for reading.  Please share with your friends and family.

Random thoughts and writings: Your lens

Random thoughts and writings: Your lens: In the past few weeks i have started to see something about life that is true for everyone.  I have come to learn that life is not ...

Your lens

In the past few weeks i have started to see something about life that is true for everyone.  I have come to learn that life is not always as it seems.  This life is truly about what lens you look though.  God gave us an amazing mind and an amazing brain.  we have a system in our brain called the reticulating access system or as david wood calls it the ras.  This ras pulls the things out of unconscious thought to conscious thought.  david did a great job in describing it as our secret service.  The secret service doesn't look for people cheering for the president they look for people that may harm him.  That is because they are trained that way.  So it is with our ras system if we train it to see the bad in the world it will but if we train it to see the positive in the situation it will bring that to conscious thought.  This system has a lot to do with our happiness in any situation.  I am so programmed to look at the negative that almost every situation i find the negative.  There was a point in my life that almost every day i would have a mental breakdown about some situation anything that was change would freak me out.  With the knowledge about the ras system i have learned to take chances.  Some of them are awesome and i am so glad that i have made them.  Some i am glad i did them but my are they a learning experience.  in everything in life there is a lesson and as i have said in the past learn your lesson and you will get your blessing.  This ras system is so important to your success and your happiness.  

Take for example myself.  I am truly an entrepreneur in my spirit i crave to have freedom in my life and want the ability to be with my kids whenever i can and to work hard when i am not with them.  That being said in the past few months i have had a few opportunities to start a small business come my way from a lot of people.   But since my ras is set up to see the way it will fail i have let those things go.  i am changing my ras which is a slow process thanks to some of the behaviors i have learned it is changing in a lot of ways.  but that ras has kept me safe which is its job but the juicy part of life is not lived in the safe it is lived in the unknown out of the comfort zone.  

i am so thankful for the lessons i have learned in that past few months and thankful for the people in my life and the ones leaving and coming.  each person has taught me lessons.  I am not perfect i have my bad days but like david says why does it have to be a bad day how about just a bad few minutes.  

My next project is to work on my sacrificing for others before myself and make myself number one in life.  cause when you love yourself to put yourself first you will love others more deeply and be more authentic which creates deeper relationships which creates a KICK ASS LIFE

I truly hope this writing finds you Awesome.  Contact me on facebook.  Lets talk.  

My finding on success.

The past few months. 

Over the past few months I have been doing a lot of studying on success and the people the world defines as successful.  I have not done as extensive training as a lot of people have but I have found three traits that run though most of them.  I am going to be adopting these three into my life over time. 

The first is the ability to move on very quickly when things go bad or issues are created.  To move on and find a solution.  This ability is about not wasting energy on the bad thing that happened but to put that energy toward the solution.  This ability with relationships with people is immediate forgiveness.  To move on from the emotion of the problem that happened between the two of them and to forgive.  In business and life the ability is about know that something bad happened experiencing it and moving to the solution as soon as possible.  I am finding more and more as I learn the habits of the successful that this is the only way to go toward your passion.  Which leads me to the next trait.                                 

Enthusiasm is the second trait.  Successful people in this world will not take on anything they cannot be passionate about.  This trait I believe is more important than the facts around the situation.  If you are enthusiastic about your life and positive about the outlook on whatever you are doing whether it be in work, family, or love life then this area of your life with grow and become successful.  And to truly be positive and enthusiastic about any situation you have to be honest. 

Honesty I believe is the key to it all.  I believe it is the key to the kick ass life.  If you are not honest with yourself and others I truly don’t believe you can be happy.  Because you will always have something to hide and something to be scared of.  Honesty is the key to it all.  Be honest with compassion all the time.  When I talk about this I hear you have to lie sometimes to protect people’s feelings.  I say no you don’t. I truly believe people want honesty in their lives.  If you tell the truth with compassion and learn the art of talking to people honesty will set you free.