The lesson you learn in this dating world.

Last night i felt lead to finally write about something i have had on my mind for a long time.  I became single about 3 years ago.  This was something that happened very speedy and i was a single man before i knew it.  Well i started dating by asking friends to set me up.  But has any of my friends know they didn't have anyone lol.  So i started online dating as i hadn't dated since right out of high school.  I had gotten with my now ex wife about a year out of high school.  So dating was and still is confusing to me.  Going out and meeting people was intimidating.  So i have went out of many dates off of online dating with a varying range of results.  Most have been 1 date and then we don't really talk again.  Some have turned into relationships.  Some of you reading this may have been in one of those with me.  I am so thankful for everyone that i have had to chance to meet or to date.  Each one of you have taught me lessons about life.  I have had good relationships that just didn't work at that time in my life.  Some ended badly and i was taken advantage of.  

But over all i have learned so much about myself and the law of attraction thought dating.  In dating the law of attraction is very easy to see.  If you think that you are not good enough for the date then it comes true pretty quick.  If you believe that they are not into you for what ever reason then you make that true whether or not they are into you.  I bet that last one was me.  Before i got my teeth fixed i thought everyone was looking at it just waiting to turn me down because of it.  This may have been true but over all i don't think it really is. We must concentrate on what we want not what we don't want.  i have learned so much from each and every person i have dated.  I am not going to name names and call people out but i am so thankful for the lessons that i have been taught.  

This life of being single can be rough when you deal with as much rejection as i have in my life.  I was born a fighter and i will continue to be a fighter in life.  I have heard no plenty of times in life because i refuse to settle for second best any more i will continue to hear it.  But i know beyond any doubt i will have an amazing relationship and love it my life.  And with that belief it will come to me.  

Thoughts are things and we must remember that.  The next date i go on could be with my future wife or it could be a one date.  But that shouldn't matter because you don't know what it will be before it.  Treat everyone with love, respect and compassion.  The last one i do believe is the rarest in the world of dating.  People and not compassionate with the truth they are hard and mean because of what have happened to them in the past.  Don't make the next person pay for the mistakes of people in your past.  The baggage should be dealt with and not unloaded on the next person you go out with.  

I truly hope my ramblings helped in some ways.  I believe that we can have deep relationships if we just are honest and treat others with love.  I do have to say in closing i am so glad i have had the chance to date around some times it feels lonely but over all i have met some amazing people.  

The big change in eddie's life

Yesterday as many of you know i completed something i should have a long time ago.  I am so happy that when i smile i can show my teeth now without being scared.  Since the end of my marriage i have had a front tooth missing.  Every date that i have been on i think about it and i see the looks and the judgment that has been placed on me.  I have learned so much from missing a front tooth.  i have learned about human nature and about judgment.  I have learned that flaws are something everyone has and some can not deal with others flaws.  I have learned to not judge a book by it's cover.  When we truly come from a place of love those flaws do not matter.  i am so happy that i invested in myself.  I am starting to learn that the law of manifestation is true.  That your thoughts control your reality.  Whatsoever and man thinks he becomes.  Thank you to all my friends that have helped me along this journey.  I have some of the greatest friends in the world.