The past few months.
Over the past few months I have been doing a lot of studying on success and the people the world defines as successful. I have not done as extensive training as a lot of people have but I have found three traits that run though most of them. I am going to be adopting these three into my life over time.
The first is the ability to move on very quickly when things go bad or issues are created. To move on and find a solution. This ability is about not wasting energy on the bad thing that happened but to put that energy toward the solution. This ability with relationships with people is immediate forgiveness. To move on from the emotion of the problem that happened between the two of them and to forgive. In business and life the ability is about know that something bad happened experiencing it and moving to the solution as soon as possible. I am finding more and more as I learn the habits of the successful that this is the only way to go toward your passion. Which leads me to the next trait.
Enthusiasm is the second trait. Successful people in this world will not take on anything they cannot be passionate about. This trait I believe is more important than the facts around the situation. If you are enthusiastic about your life and positive about the outlook on whatever you are doing whether it be in work, family, or love life then this area of your life with grow and become successful. And to truly be positive and enthusiastic about any situation you have to be honest.
Honesty I believe is the key to it all. I believe it is the key to the kick ass life. If you are not honest with yourself and others I truly don’t believe you can be happy. Because you will always have something to hide and something to be scared of. Honesty is the key to it all. Be honest with compassion all the time. When I talk about this I hear you have to lie sometimes to protect people’s feelings. I say no you don’t. I truly believe people want honesty in their lives. If you tell the truth with compassion and learn the art of talking to people honesty will set you free.
